If you began to notice that your child often became nervous, began to get angry for no reason, cry, make scandals, began to sleep poorly, this may be a consequence of some kind of stress. Parents should urgently take measures to try to solve all the problems of the child, otherwise in the future severe stress can lead to serious psychological trauma at an older age. There are certain techniques that can help cope with any stress.
Children themselves cannot properly allocate their time, and many parents try to teach their child almost everything. Music and art schools, sports sections, riding school, additional classes in school subjects. Of course, a student can attend all these additional classes, but it is unlikely that anything really good will come of it. Most likely, such workload will lead to the devastation of the personality, the child will do everything only to please his parents, and not for his own interest. Try to find out what your baby is most interested in, what he would like to do and devote his free time to. And when the child finds his own hobby, which he will really like, he will become more balanced, calm and cheerful, because he will get rid of the load that is completely unnecessary for him.
Despite the fact that the child has already gone to school, he still remains a little man who really needs your affection, approval and praise. After a hard day at school, be sure to hug your little schoolboy, kiss, pat on the head, ask how his day went. Talk more with your child, your words are very important to the baby.
Teach your child to defend his opinion, teach the baby to say “no”, in communicating with peers this is very important, if the child does not learn to refuse classmates and friends, this can lead to disastrous consequences. Teach your child to express his feelings correctly, he should not block them in himself, otherwise this can lead to isolation and not wanting to communicate with friends. The child will become an outcast, which leads to severe stress.
Be sure to praise your child for any achievement, this is very important for children. The usual reaction to praise is simple neglect, but this is only a superficial mask with which your child wants to show himself as an adult, in fact, in his heart he will be very happy with your every word.
Laugh. It is laughter that can save even from the strongest stress. Develop a sense of humor in your little schoolboy, teach him to look at any trouble not so seriously, sometimes you just need to make fun of trouble. Parents should show their child by their own example that any unpleasant situation can be dealt with. Laugh for any reason and sometimes for no reason.
Show your baby that you completely trust him, his choice, his words. This will help the child to trust you as well, because many stresses begin at home.